tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6197594696459746809.post6952684536076604919..comments2012-04-26T01:26:23.323-04:00Comments on Eating Cake and Shitting Briars: unnamedEating cake and shitting briarshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04912513944702555188noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6197594696459746809.post-30538388383889605362012-04-26T01:26:23.323-04:002012-04-26T01:26:23.323-04:00Jan, This is Lexie and I read your post just now o...Jan, This is Lexie and I read your post just now on MTASA. I do not respond on there any longer, but I do read from time to time and I just wanted to say that my heart goes out to you. I simply cannot believe the depths of your betrayals. <br /><br />at this point I've said everything there pretty much is to say about this disease. Your husband is one of the worst, however, IMO. I know that there's no comfort in hearing that, only that he obviously gets off on destroying everyone's lives-- including his own. He's a sociopath; a misogynist, honey. He hates ALL women and seeks to control and have power over them at any cost.<br /><br />it is not about sex or love or anything like that. He cannot love because he is incapable of having this or any kind of REAL emotion, whatsoever...except for himself. awww... another tell is when a man cries and BEGS to be given another chance. What the hell for? This isn't a baseball game. As for the women... not that you should feel sorry for them, but they are victims too...ahhhh... well, he knows just what to say to entrap them into his sick lair. He toys with them like a cat with a mouse and casts a spell over them the likes of which...until he's bored and cheats on them too... I mean, who is he? James Bond? Ha! I dare say not, so what IS it? <br /><br />its all a con. His entire life is fake and phony and I am positive that there's a special place in hell waiting for him. not that he's not already there. believe that, for its true.<br /><br />he has no soul, Jan.<br /><br />please know that there was nothing you could have done or SHOULD HAVE DONE, OR KNOWN, or done anything any differently from what you did.<br /><br />I know, that concept has been hard for me too... the what ifs... toss them aside. focus on your five beautiful DAUGHTERS that you would not have had if it wasn't for him. Leave him be. he's hopeless.<br /><br />take care of you. I realize that you are sick, but rest. heel. rest your mind and your soul.<br /><br />Do you have a therapist? Have you tried EMDR therapy? meditation? Oh honey, I so wish I could take your pain away, if only for an hour. How well I understand. <br /><br />you did nothing wrong. there is never any sin in loving. <br /><br />it was just rotten bad luck... I am praying for you. I do not know you or your husband... I have no other motive than to reach out to another sister in pain...<br /><br />my love is pure. take it and feel blessed, for you are... LexieLexiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15213559319252118335noreply@blogger.com